“Should” is primarily based on the opinions of others, your own fears and need for acceptance and safety. It suffocates you from your own intuition and the evolutionary impulses moving within you.

The biological impulse of stress causes us to narrow our focus literally to ourself and where we need to get to in order to escape the “threat” to our survival.

On deeper examination a majority of your ideas about yourself, your fears, feelings and impressions are based on those of your parents, or closest caregivers, a bundle of impressions absorbed onto the white cloth - your innocent state - of natural bliss, joy and wonder.